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Varietal Tuesday (Sans Grapes)

What a title, eh?

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My oldest nephew just started college, and as he's begun this new part of his life, it got me thinking about my college days — and days older still.

Time is weird, you know? A few months ago, I was at a friend's salon waiting to get a haircut, and in walks a girl I went to school with. We passed the basic pleasantries like "how's it going?" and "how's the wife/husband," etc., etc, then we both just sat there in awkwardness. I mean, me and this girl (woman, now) grew up together, and we've known each other since we were like 5 years old — so we're talking about knowing each other for over 30 years. THIRTY! However, we had nothing to say to one another — we were just two totally different humans with totally different lives, both just happening to live on the same planet. How crazy is that? You know someone all your life yet you still have nothing to say to them.

This got me thinking about the friends I had in Jr High and High School, and most of those people have just gone by the way-side. Think of the hundreds of people you spent 5 days a week with, and think about how little you knew about most of them. Where are they now? Who knows. What are they doing? Beats me. The more you think about it, the more you (or I do, at least) think about all the stupidity and foolishness, and you wish you could take some of it back. Good grief, who knows what memories stand out when people think of me. Oh well.

What's cool, though, is the friends that were made back then who are still our friends today. Sweet Moses, the stories Jeremy and I could tell (we just need to find Wesley)! And every once in a while, I'll stumble upon another old friend, which is nice. I bumped into a gal I grew up with just the other day, and that was cool. She was the girl that was fully accepted into our Guy Flock, and she held her own quite well amid the testosterone. Now she lives in London with her hubby (isn't that what that call them over there?), which sounds about right for her.

Fast-forward to college, and the cycle repeats. My greatest friendships were born in college — the main one being with my wife. Other than her, I have guys I know I could call at any hour of the day for anything, and they'd do their dadgum best to help out in any way they could. Friends you can go for years not seeing, but when you're back together, it's like you pick up right where you left off. That's cool — and chances are, we'll always stay in touch with each other until one of us finally kicks out.

All of this makes me reflect on days long gone, and part of me wishes I could go back and keep my mouth shut at times, and then open it at others. But such is life, no? I hope my old friends are doing well, the ones I never talk to any longer. I hope they have found happiness, contentment, fulfillment. I hope they have discovered that there's a God in Heaven that loves them just as they are. I hope they have found true joy, and that they have found someone to love and cherish. I hope they are doing something they love, and that they're making the world a better place, one home at a time.

So Trip, if you're reading this, take it all in. Never rush yourself. This is one of the best times of your life, and it's here that you'll make those life-long friends that will always be there for you — and that you can be there for. Be yourself, and don't try to live up to anyone's expectations that don't fit who you really are. Push to be the best you can be, never settling for just the mediocre — and surround yourself with people who live out that same philosophy. Of course, I must interject that Dave and Jim are probably getting a kick out of me saying that, but we were the best at what we did, which was being cool, of course. =)

Oh, and if you are reading my site and you see me talking about all the cigars I smoke, you uh, shouldn't do that. It's bad for you. And make sure the girls you date live at least 50 miles away from one another — 70, if you call pull it off.

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Week Wrap-Up

The rest of my Jeep's subwoofer hardware arrived today, so I'm going to try and get it all installed tomorrow. I can't wait to find out how 25Hz feels. w00t!

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We've been Tivoing the Olympics to watch the volleyball, and the men are playing especially awesome (we're still at 10-1 US in the 3rd set). I used to love playing volleyball back in the day, but my fat butt would only last about 10 minutes nowadays.

I have a feeling we're going to win...

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WE WON!

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And yeah, that's about all that's happened this week...

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Yes, It Has Landed

My source called me around noon today to let me know that our local AT&T did, in fact, receive a shipment of iPhones — which is the first shipment they've received since the original July 11 release. Luckily, I was already in the area, so I was able to run over and get mine before they sold out. Getting on the "pre-order" list was the best the local shop could do, as they aren't allowed to hold iPhones for anyone — so I'm glad my contact came through with the tipoff. I showed up before they even started checking them in, and by the time I left, they only had 2 white and 1 black iPhone left (out of an original shipment of 10).

I opted for the black 16GB model so that I could at least carry my main iTunes playlist (which is only 8.52GB) and still having plenty of room for Lord knows what. So far, I really like it — but I'm still transferring contacts, email accounts, iTunes tracks, etc., so I haven't really been able to dive into the features. I do hope there some way to permanently set the local area code, because I already hate having to dial it when making a local call. Of course, if I have my Contacts setup properly, I'll rarely have to dial anyone's number — but ti's an annoyance nonetheless (so far).

So for now, I really like the iPhone, and I'm sure I'll like even more once I "think different" on what all a "phone" can do for me.

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My iPhone Is Landing (Maybe)...

A little birdie has let me know that the 16GB iPhone I "pre-ordered" I don't know how long ago may be arriving tomorrow, so that's pretty cool. I love new toys, and this is one toy that will actually make my life a LOT easier since — while I love my current phone (SMT5800) — it will better integrate with all my systems. I'm needing a good calendar sync solution more and more, and it just makes sense to use the iCal calendars I already use. Not to mention address book integration, etc., etc.

So now I wait and see if it really arrives, so here's to hoping it will...

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And We’re Back, Plus More

Well, we made it back home from MD Anderson. Much thanks for the prayers and kind words — and we're thrilled to report that there's not a dadgum thing wrong with Dad's heart. Everything checks out fine, including the existing asbestosis scarring — and they were able to culture some bacteria from the bronchoscope. That means, for all intents and purposes, that Dad's current shortness of breath is more likely than not being caused by this bacterial infection. What that means is that his breathing capacity should return to his normal state once the antibiotics kill the little buggers. The downside is that he's currently in his lowest week from chemo, so his body is going to have an extra hard time fighting off the bacteria — but the Docs expect Dad's breathing to make a comeback. They even commented that we may be taking antibiotics the whole time, just to be safe, since Dad's asbestosis scarring already makes him extra vulnerable to infection.

But all in all, we received the good news we were praying and hoping for, and we're still praying that things will pan-out in the above manner. We're going up for blood work twice a week for now, just to closely monitor everything while we work through this first hump.

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Since I've been out with family stuff, it's been 2 weeks since I've played at church — and I miss doing so quite a bit. I miss the faces, the conversations, the music, the playing. Hopefully things will begin to even out so that I can get back into playing — but we'll see. Dad's the top priority, of course.

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I've begun my Jeep sound system upgrades, and I've started with the sub. Like I've said before, the stock system is actually pretty decent (Infinity), but it's not quite where I want it. That said, I bought a Profile AP1000M amp, which I'll run at 310 watts and 4 ohms.

This will let me use the sub I've been wanting to try for months: the Rockford Fosgate T110D2. This dual coil monster will churn-out bass frequencies between 20 and 200 Hz, so I'll have no problems hearing — and feeling — the low foundation notes I've always liked. I could have opted for a 4 ohm version which would let me run the amp at 500 watts — but that'd just be CRAZY loud.

I'll set everything into a ported enclosure, bolted to the Jeep, and be good to go. All the goodies are still on order, so it may be a couple of weeks before I have everything installed — but it'll be well worth the wait! Then I'll move on to the 6 remaining speakers...

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I think we'll have meat loaf for dinner tonight. There's just nothing quite like a loaf of meat, is there?

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Going Back

My brother stayed with Dad last night, so I came home around 9:30pm to get some decent rest before heading back to MD Anderson in a few minutes. Please pray that the Doctors would being us good news, and that the shortness of breath on exertion issue would be nothing more than a simple infection that can be easily treated — and that the breathing issue would only be temporary with no permanent "damage." We're also hoping to come home sometime this weekend, as being in the hospital for 6 days has gotten quite tiresome to him.

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The Jeep Has Landed

I got my Jeep today, and I dadgum LOVE IT. The thing rides as smooth as my Titan, even for a 4-wheel drive. And the sound system? It's actually pretty dadgum sweet once I got it equalized — and the factory sub is comparable to my Bazooka. Here are some pics taken with my cell phone:

Jeep offers Remote Start as an option, and I've already grown quite fond of it for getting the AC going. It seemed like a silly "luxury" to add to a Jeep, but I'm glad I got it. The only thing they couldn't get me was the 105mm recoilless rifle to mount on the back to clear out slow traffic. Oh well.

So fare-thee-well, Titan: you were nice while I had you — but don't let the door hit you on the way out!

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